they make it very clear that they do not care about you. but they will go to extremes to make you feel morally obliged to them and guilty before them, by means of false accusations. if then you ever show the slightest kindness to one of them, you thereby renounce all your rights, it will stalk you, it will not respect your privacy, and it will take the opportunity to police everything in your life. these things certainly do not feel any concern, but they will use their 'concern' to justify any intrusion into your life, and their 'concern' will always come at the expense of your rights.