also, to be subjected to strict standards of privacy by a society that does not respect my privacy to any degree. while working as a team against you, they divide themselves into groups, and one of these divisions is: 'members of your private life'/ 'members of the public'. each group will be equally coercive, and will often subject you to completely opposite standards. often a 'member of the public' will police something in your private life, which members of your private life will very much hold against you, or members of your private life will provoke you in various ways, and your reaction will give the public an excuse to attack you in large swarms.